I have recently had the experience of viewing a certain moderator, calling a chatter a very unpleasant name, just because they were talking to more than one person in whispers. I found this insulting, not only to the person concerned and but also to myself and i would imagine to other chatters in the room. If that had been another chatter they would have been warned or kicked. I am sad that this is allowed to happen, especially as there was no reason for the insult. While on this subject, i also have concerns about private messages and private chats, not staying that way, which in my opinion is wrong, things that are said in whispers should not be posted in the main room, by a third party, namely a mod. That is abuse of there power. Similarly, infomation contained in private chats or whispers should not be disclosed to people other than those involved. The last point has ruined an expected relationship and also ruined the feelings of some people in the chat. All these things were done by a moderator over 1 or 2 days. The chat experience should be fun and enjoyable and any form of relations between people, either friendship or otherwise should not be allowed to be affected, by things that should never.